Should we let her suffer????

my mom & I got into a fight at my aunts house, my mom threw a shoe at me and it hit the TV. Her Tv frame got a dent in it the corner of her huge flat screen tv. My mom ended up paying for it & we apologized. We thought it would be the end of the story because it was a huge embarrassment. But later my aunt claimed i wrote a quote on my FB status that was directed to her, in which i swear to god it had no refrence to my aunt. My aunt was just trying to make the situation bigger than it was, I tried explaining to my aunt. I sent her a text to clear up the stupid rumor, said some nice things: i love u, never would i try to blow this whole thing out of porportion, that quote wasn't directed to anyone, all i want is peace etc. Around this same time my mom had already paid my aunt 1,000 dollars for the TV. But my aunt never told my mom she had already got it fixed for 100 dollars. So my aunts mother called my mom to tell her to come get the 1,000 dollars back. Mind u my mom called my aunt to apologize like so many times, I even tried getting her attention with the text. And it return my aunt just straight up ignored my mom and I. Now this happened in april, and now tonight my Aunt FINALLLYY sends my mom a text and says hey theres this party tonight and that they are having a party at her house tomorrow night and that we should come(becuz my mom and her are party buddy's). BUT my mom and her never cleared the air, and never got to talk things out. So is it fair, that after you done something wrong and pay for damages when she already got it fixed and could not even call to say: don't worry, just pay for the damages which is just 100 dollars. when my mom sent 1,000.(though we got the money back cuz of my aunts mom) is it still right for you to call and call and call to reach out to someone and apologize and they just sit there and ignore on purpose. THEN months later out of no where invites you to a party? Would you reply back to the msg.? would you go to the party?...... My mom is not going to reply back, becuz she feels that they need to talk woman to woman like they should have done from the start instead of the problem playing out for all these months. So my mom is basically going to ignore her like she did through out all this time.............THANKS FOR ALL ANSWERS